Popular Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing has taken to social media to vent her frustration over what she described as overwhelming and exhausting attention from men flooding her inboxes.
The actress revealed that she receives thousands of marriage proposals daily, leaving her mentally and emotionally drained.
“My DMs Are a Mess”
Speaking via her Instagram page, Nkechi Blessing lamented that her private messages across different platforms have become uncontrollable, with men constantly reaching out to express romantic interest.
According to her, she wakes up every day to countless messages from strangers proposing marriage or seeking relationships.
Blocking Hasn’t Helped
The actress explained that despite blocking numerous accounts and attempting to adjust her privacy settings, the messages have continued without pause.
She stressed that although she is currently single, she is not searching for a partner, yet her WhatsApp and social media inboxes remain flooded.
“I’m Tired” — Nkechi Blessing Speaks Out
Expressing her frustration in a video, she said:
“I have tried everything I can. I don’t even know which video is trending again. I wake up to thousands of messages from different kinds of men. I don block tire.
I am single, but I no dey find man. I’m not searching.
My WhatsApp is a mess. I have over 5,000 messages from different kinds of species called men. I am tired. How many be my body wey over 5,000 men wan marry me?”
Fans React
Her outburst has since sparked mixed reactions online, with some sympathizing with her experience, while others joked about the unusual dilemma.
The actress’s rant has reignited conversations around online boundaries, privacy, and the pressures faced by public figures on social media.
I have over 5000 men in my dm saying they want to marry me, I don’t know which video trended online, please I am single but I am not searching, stop texting my number” — Nkechi Blessings cries out pic.twitter.com/28Xa9tWIwu
— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) January 20, 2026
